Me he dado una ducha caliente y estoy relajada en el sofá. Mañana se acaba el año y quería parar un momento a reflexionar sobre todo lo que he aprendido este 2020 y lo que me queda por aprender, porque aunque se termine el año, esto no ha terminado todavía.
Today I came back from the mountains to be with Miki and my friends Paula and Jorge. We took a walk in the snow and had lunch there. I loved walking in the snowy forest, it's a wonderful feeling. This is one of the many good things we have learned in this strange year where a worldwide pandemic has taken us by surprise and forced us to adapt ourselves and stop, to rethink our lifestyle and to reconsider many things we had taken for granted.
I took a hot shower and I'm relax on the couch. Tomorrow the year is ending and I wanted to stop for a moment to reflect on all that I have learned this 2020 and what I still have to learn, because even though the year is ending, this whole thing is not over yet.
2020 me ha enseñado | What I learned from 2020
✨ Que la vida cambia en un momento, lo que conoces puede desvanecerse y somos muy pequeñitos aunque nos creamos gigantes. Por eso este año he aprendido a que no importa si lo que tenías planeado no sale. He aprendido a no planificar tanto y a adaptarme al cambio de última hora sin que me afecte. Simplemente a aceptarlo y a no martirizarme ni quejarme, porque un cambio de planes no siempre tiene por qué ser malo, a veces la vida nos obliga a cambiar lo que teníamos pensado y al final resulta que nos aporta mucho más que el plan inicial. | ✨ That life changes in a moment, what you know can fade away and we are very small even though we think we are giants. That's why this year I've learned that it doesn't matter if what you had planned doesn't come out. I have learned not to plan so much and to adapt myself to the last minute change. Simply to accept it and not to martyr myself or complain, because a change of plans doesn't always have to be bad, sometimes life forces us to change what we had planned and in the end it turns out that it brings us more than the initial plan.
✨ A no juzgar. Siempre he sido de poco juzgar, la verdad, que cada cual haga lo que quiera siempre que no haga daño a nadie. Este año más que nunca me he dado cuenta de lo importante que es esto. Cada uno tiene su circunstancia y no se puede juzgar a alguien porque se salga de la norma (en todos los sentidos), porque puede que no tenga más remedio, o puede que la norma no sea necesariamente lo que tiene que ser. No todo es blanco o negro. A sí que me repito, cada uno es responsable de su vida y, mientras no haga daño a nadie, que dirija su vida hacia su felicidad personal, que no necesariamente tiene que ser la del resto. | ✨ Not to judge. To be honest, I have always been a non- judgmental person. I believe that everyone has to do what they want as long as they don't hurt anyone. This year more than ever I have realized how important this is. Everyone has their own circumstances and you can't judge someone just because they are out of the norm (in every way), because they may have no choice, or the norm may not necessarily be what it needs to be. Not everything is black or white. So I repeat myself, everyone is responsible for their own life and, as long as they don't hurt anyone, they should direct their life towards their personal happiness, which doesn't necessarily have to be the same as the rest of us.
✨ A valorar mi tiempo y la gente que me rodea. No sé si os ha pasado pero este año me he dado cuenta de las personas maravillosas que tengo cerca. También me he dado cuenta de que hay gente que realmente no tiene que estar cerca, gente tóxica o que no me aporta y que no merece la pena. Valoro mucho más mi tiempo y sobre todo con quien lo comparto. He reforzado mi relación con mi familiar y con esas personas que tengo a mi lado que todavía no me creo que tenga. Porque rodearte de gente que te quiere, que se alegra por ti, que no es celosa y que te aporta es lo mejor que te puede pasar. | ✨ To value my time and the people around me. I don't know if it has happened to you too, but this year I have realized the wonderful people I have around me. I've also realized that there are people who really don't have to be around, people who are toxic or who don't make me grow and aren't worth it. I value my time much more now and especially with those who I share it. I have strengthened my relationship with my family and with those people I have by my side that I still don't believe I have btw. Because surrounding yourself with people who love you, who are happy for you, who are not jealous and who make you grow is the best thing that can happen to you.
✨ A dosificar la energía. Mi energía es lo más poderoso que tengo y trato de mantenerla siempre positiva y equilibrada. Hago verdaderos esfuerzos mentales para no dejar que nada negativo entre. La pandemia me ha enseñado a no gastar la valiosa energía positiva en lo que no merece la pena. Si alguien trata de mandarme malas vibraciones no dejo que me afecte, si me siento triste analizo el motivo. Aunque me permito un rato de tristeza, que es muy sano, igual que caigo trato de salir. Pienso en todo lo bueno que tengo y que hay gente en unas circunstancias peores y sale adelante. | ✨ To dose the energy. My energy is the most powerful thing I have and I try to keep it always positive and balanced. I make a real mental effort to not let anything negative come in. The pandemic has taught me not to waste this valuable positive energy on what is not worthwhile. If someone tries to send me bad vibes I don't let it affect me, if I feel sad I analyze the reason. Although I allow myself a moment of sadness, which is very healthy, I try to get out just as I fall. I think about all the good things I have and that there are people in worse circumstances and they get through it.
✨ A valorar lo que tengo. Me considero una persona bastante consciente de esto. Siempre trato de cuidar, mantener y agradecer mucho todo lo que tengo. Este año además me ha hecho valorar cosas que quizás antes no me planteaba tanto. Valoro mucho la posibilidad de viajar, creo que nos ha pasado a todos. Este año más que nunca he disfrutado cuando las restricciones eran menos estrictas y podíamos desplazarnos. Viajar es maravilloso, aunque sea a 100k de distancia, no hace falta irse al fin del mundo. | ✨ To value what I have. I consider myself to be quite aware of this. I always try to take care, maintain and be very grateful for everything I have. This year has also made me value things that perhaps before I did not consider so much. I value travelling more, I think it has happened to all of us. This year, more than ever, I have enjoyed when the restrictions were less strict and we could move around. Traveling is wonderful, even if it is 100k away, you don't have to go to the end of the world.
✨A escuchar al planeta. Siendo sincera, no era una persona súper concienciada con el medio ambiente, tampoco soy ahora una experta, pero cada vez me doy más cuenta de que tenemos que cuidarlo y querer nuestro planeta. Para mí esto ha sido un aviso, una manera de que frenemos y que nos replanteemos hacia dónde íbamos. El ritmo que llevábamos, ahora lo veo con otros ojos, es exagerando. Me ha gustado parar un poco, para mí ha sido un regalo, algo necesario. | ✨ To listen to the planet. To be honest, I wasn't a super conscious person about the environment, nor am I an expert now, but I'm realizing more and more that we have to take care of it and love our planet. For me this has been a warning, a way for us to slow down and rethink where we were going. The rhythm we were keeping, I see it with other eyes, it is excessive. I liked to stop a little, for me it was a gift, something necessary.
✨ Y lo último quizás es algo estúpido, pero he entendido por qué decimos "salud" cada vez que brindamos. Porque en realidad es lo único importante. | ✨ And the last one may be a little stupid, but I have understood why we say "salud" in Spain every time we toast. It means health. Because it's the only thing that really matters.
✨ Brindo por un 2021 lleno de salud para todos ✨
✨ So "salud" to a 2021 full of health for everyone ✨
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